We all know how to complain. We all are great in this.
If we do not want to do something, we’ll find a million excuses to justify their laziness, fear or whatever keeps you in the box doing nothing. Fortunately, the same forces that keep you in the box can give you a decent kick to act. If you really want something, you’ll find the right number of reasons to get it. Do not try to do it during the sale? Do you need another pair of shoes? No, but you will certainly find some logical reason to buy them, because half the price is cheaper, right.
Many people know what they do not want. What he does not like. And what he would not like to do and get rid of his daily plan. And how many people really know what he wants?
The answer I want to be rich and travel is the most repetitive story. The problem arises when you ask that person ok, and how much money would you like to have? Which countries do you want to go to? What do you want to do there? What do you need free time for? How much does the house of your dreams cost? How much time do you have to sacrifice to have the body you dream about? How much do you need monthly money to live a comfortable life? What job do you prefer with what people?
That’s a lot of questions. And I guarantee you that if you ask one of them, nobody will give you an immediate answer. Because most people do not know.
He did not plan, did not check, did not get interested enough to count his expenses, find the coveted house, check the price of the ticket to the gta who want to visit. You see, in general, each of us wants to be rich, beautiful, young and healthy and do what he likes. In theory. And what happens if it gets it? He begins to get bored, linger, enjoys only a moment, loses his fortune, falls into addictions, changes. I’m not saying it’s routine, I’m not saying every millionaire is an asshole. But if you do not know what exactly you want, and you can not show it in numbers and pictures, how are you going to get it or enjoy it?
- You want to work as a freelancer, great.
- What are you planning to do?
- What to sell?
- How much do you need customers and money per month?
- Do you have a work plan, know when you’ll be billing your account, how you’ll be billed?
- How do you advertise?
- How are you going to dress?
A lot of questions?
But if you do not work on this topic, how do you intend to get and keep what you want. A simple love affair. All stories of romance for children start like a princess, love the princess, fall in love, some evil stepmother is on their way, but overcome adversity. There is a great wedding and they lived long and happy and the film ends. Translating this into life, you fall in love at the age of 20, at the age of 24, a great wedding and you live long and …. well or happily? what are you going to do for the next 70 years? This is no longer in fairy tales. The plan does not cover this topic. Similarly, your makeshift looks a lot of money and I want to do what I want. A good start with a vague development and a fatal ending.
So instead of complaining about what is, design what you want to be.
Remember that the state in which you are today will not last forever. And the only person who can get you out of it is you. But you can not do it without a plan and a good reason that will motivate you. So before you start to implement a crazy madman, think and write down all possible answers, design in detail, because you may find that you do not need millions to live the way you want, that this house is not that dream and these exotic countries are not a place, not for you or your asthma.