You need it, sew it through, belong to it, create a new one. Family.
Sometimes the safest place on earth. Sometimes hell in life. The problem with the family is that both can give you a kick and wing you. Can also dump you to the very bottom, destroy your self-confidence. Hurt. Let you bleeding.
Love and hatred really stand close to each other holding hands. These two extreme emotions are not so different from each other. And our life can not do without any of them. Because life is not black and white. You can not set rigid rules and live according to them. Our feelings do not allow it. And this is a fact we can love so much that we hate it. In one moment to wish someone death and in a next one pull his sinking ass out of the water, cursing life and yourself. Is this madness. Of course, if you do not do it then you’re probably a psychopath. Seriously. Make a test.
Family is something that we did not choose and although there are those who think differently, it can not be removed.
Because you wear it in you. End. You have soaked her and I assure you that some of your behaviors and habits will never change. Has become. I hope you were lucky to be in a loving family that encouraged you from your first steps. I think most families will be laughing for happiness when you take your first steps. Because it’s so cute. Look, he crawled and now he walks. The problem arises then. When we grow up, we begin to understand that our parents and relatives are not just aliens, but normal people who also once made diapers and had bird bugs. On the way to “adulthood” they jumped in the mode – I. They start to terrorize their children. Everyone even the most loving parent, though he criticized his child once in his life.
It felt disappointed, happy, sad. This is a normal process. Because parenthood is pain in an ass.
Let them say what they want to be responsible for a small person is not easy and the pressure is huge.
You may have loving parents who are demanding, who tried their dreams come true on you. For those there is a chance that you will be still proud of you, provided you do something valuable with your life.
Worse with your parents, we will end up, for them you will never be perfect and whatever you do will be below the limit. It’s those who when you get A will ask why not A +. If you are motivated by a challenge, you can deal with it if you do not …. Well. If you were the second Einstein, you will always feel a bad goodness.
If you have succumbed to a parent, then it is also a catastrophe. If they let you in on everything and for them everything is perfect, they can do it wrong. You will not get any rules and regolances from them, so you will grow into a conceited asshole that too much ego. And life soon will show you that you are not as great as you were told. A little bit of good sense and self-criticism will be useful to such people. Because there are more and more of them. They are impatient of arrogant arrogants.
The sad truth is that whoever you have not been, anything you do not achieve, somewhere in the middle you need acceptance and praise from your loved ones.
It’s your blood.
People who know you best and nobody will replace it. You can hate, scream at yourself and curse everything, but the ties that bind you can not be killed. Because the family’s end is the greatest strength.
We fight, we work, we love, we create for her. Whatever the world can do us, we will always find shelter in the place where our dreams were born.
They say that when the sun is alive, they return to the place where we are born to die. That their lives would come full circle. With people it is similar, many of us are looking for a medical condition where it was safe. We will not return to the mother’s womb, but we can return to a place where we felt peace and love.
To a place that is called the HOME.