All of us are looking for happiness.
Everyone wants to be happy – preferably all the time. They look for perfect solutions, they try to avoid pain, confrontation and uncomfortable situations at all costs. Sometimes they are capable of great sacrifices, just to maintain their state of happiness – or its illusions.
We say, as soon as I meet a man of my dreams, I will graduate and I will be happy, I will be happy when I buy a new car, a chanel jacket, when I go to Thailand or have a child. Yes, we all know this. And what, and we get a new job, a man, a child, a house, vacations under palm trees, new cars and … And we are still unhappy.
Each of us knows this feeling. You can have everything and feel unhappy. We often envy others what we would like to have and we do not understand what they are dissatisfied with, you have certainly jumped from happiness in his place. Just in his place, and you thought that maybe someone is looking at you and is looking for sure and wondering why you are unhappy and you have “all this”.
If you are reading this post, I have good news for you – you are richer than 75% of people in the world.
I shocked you?
And yet, statistics confirmed by the study of some wise American universities speak for themselves. Just think about what to eat, where to sleep, you have some money, family, you have finished some school and you have access to the internet! You have all development opportunities at any level.Are you still not happy? I will tell you the secret of happiness…
Ready? The secret of happiness is …
BALANCE You heard so well. It all depends on the proportion in this life. In one we are all equal, each of us has 24 hours a day. And in 99% it depends on us how we will use this time.
Man is a complicated machinery, but he has to feed on different fuels every day to not burn out. If you’ve always dreamed about a great career, and now you have it, but you work hard, your health, your personal life, your abandoned family, your soul suffers. If you focus only on your pleasures, sooner or later you will end up alone and penniless. You admit that it is hard to feel happy in this perspective.
And that’s why so many people are unhappy, because they never asked themselves what is really important to them and they did not plan their life time according to these guidelines. It is not about spending the same amount of time in each of your living zones, it is important not to forget about them and to live in each of them for a moment each day. Each of us has these zones. There are 6 of them. And believe me, you can really stuff them in the daily plan of the day.
They call it a hexagon of happiness and it looks like this.
I will tell you about it in another post, and today it is important that you ask yourself what your day or week looks like? What do you do most often? Do you like what you do? Do you have time for yourself? For your children? Hobby? When did you last do something for yourself or for others? You see each of us is different, has different goals, and values. But until you realize that you need a little bit of everything to make your life full, you will be more or less unhappy.